12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan Peterson

Jordan Peterson is one of those people who does not mince words. When you listen to his talks on YouTube, you always come back a little more pumped up and motivated than before. You also get a feeling that you’ve not been doing enough and need to step up and take more responsibilities.

I enjoyed reading the book. Every rule is a context where he explains his philosophy and the reasoning behind them. He makes references that are wide-ranging - mythology, Bible, Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Solzhenitsyn, Viktor Frankl, and so on. I wonder how someone who hasn’t read Bible or Tolstoy could grasp everything in the book. Would definitely like to read it again and write a longer summary and notes.

Some portions can come across as elaborate explanation to make a simple point. But I found that type of story telling fascinating. His words are stern and advice direct. There are some great quotes.

The overarching theme is that β€˜the person’ matters. Every person can change, and can effect change. Every person has to make a hero’s journey to succeed. There is no gold without the dragon. Find your dragon and slay it. By making small changes today, you can cause big changes in the future.

Rule 1: Stand Up Straight With Your Shoulders Back

Rule 2: Treat Yourself Like Someone You Are Responsible for Helping

Rule 3: Make Friends with People Who Want the Best For You

Rule 4: Compare Yourself to Who You Were Yesterday, Not Who Someone Else is Today

Rule 5: Do Not Let Your Children Do Anything that Makes You Dislike Them

Rule 6: Set Your House in Perfect Order Before You Criticize the World

Rule 7: Pursue What is Meaningful (Not What is Expedient)

Rule 8: Tell the Truth, or at least Don’t Lie

Rule 9: Assume that the Person You Are Listening to Might Know Something You Don’t

Rule 10: Be Precise in Your Speech

Rule 11: Do Not Bother Children when they are Skateboarding

Rule 12: Pet a Cat When You Encounter One on the Street